How Choking Under Pressure Can Be a Good Thing
Article by Stephen Aartsol
Have you ever been a part of something memorable, but for all the wrong reasons? That’s kind of how my pitch on Shark Tank went down.
The wheels came off when my slideshow stopped mid-presentation. Stressed, frozen, and unable to recover, I stumbled through the rest of my pitch, all while being teased by the Sharks.
Although it wasn’t my most positive entrepreneurial experience, it was ultimately a success. Most people only remember my disastrous pitch; they forget that I did pull a deal with Mark Cuban out of that fire.
I realize my situation isn’t necessarily typical. In most scenarios, a failed pitch would be the end of the road, not the beginning of a new path. Still, there’s a lot to be learned from choking during a professional situation.
Why People Choke
A successful pitch depends on preparation and confidence. Not only does these things help you improvise when your presentation goes off the rails, but they also show investors the depth of your commitment.
Choking during high-pressure situations is usually blamed on nerves, but University of Chicago psychologist Sian Beilock thinks there’s more to these moments of stress. According to Beilock, working memory plays a major part in on-the-spot performance, and intelligent people often have an abundance of it. Worry, however, can eat away at your working memory, making it easy to forget the things you’d normally recall with ease.
There are also serious consequences of choking beyond embarrassing yourself on national T.V. When you perform poorly at something, your mind begins to convince you that you’re not actually good at that thing. You quit trying and tell yourself that you’re just not cut out for it when, in fact, you might be one of the best in the world. You simply choked under the pressure. A public hiccup can paralyze even the most confident people – but it can also be the breakthrough you need to keep moving.
Catch Your Breath
You learn a lot when you make a fool of yourself on T.V., and the lessons that come with choking in a stressful situation can ultimately lead to even greater success. Here are a few things to consider when preparing for your next big pitch to avoid a disastrous situation:
Many people think memorization is foolproof when, in fact, the exact opposite is true. If you commit your presentation to memory but stumble somewhere, you might lose track of where you were.
A canned presentation can also come across as insincere and inauthentic – a vibe that doesn’t sell well. Instead of nailing every word down and hoping not to trip, plan a start and a stop; then, plot the points you want to hit in between. This method requires you to know your business inside and out. That, in turn, makes you prepared to answer questions or improvise when needed.
2. Relax the Room
Investors don’t just invest in businesses; they invest in people. Much like starting a romantic relationship, the two of you must like each other in order to be successful. That doesn’t mean you should lie or be insincere in order to trick someone into liking you under false pretenses, but flattering your target is never a bad idea.
It’s important to be yourself when pitching. If you’re not the type to dress in a suit and tie or use fancy industry jargon, don’t. Your presentation will come across as far more authentic when you feel like yourself.
Belfor CEO Sheldon Yellen learned this firsthand when an employee of his said the suit and tie he usually wore made him unapproachable and intimidating. From that point on, Yellen started wearing casual outfits so his employees felt more at ease talking to him. The more comfortable and relaxed each side is, the more likely you are to succeed.
3. Sit in Their Chair
When it’s your company, it’s easy to see why yours is the solution that will change the world. However, not everyone sees it that way. By looking at your pitch through the eyes of the investor, you’ll be able to spot potential problems and address them before they arise.
When you look at your pitch from a different perspective, you’re engaging in an act of compassion and empathy for others. Yes, you might be doing it because you want investors to buy into your company, but you’re also making their lives easier by considering how to appeal to them.
The ability to walk a mile in someone else’s shoes is the key to success because no one can be successful entirely by themselves. When you prove that you’re able to see things from someone else’s point of view, it’s far easier to find people who are willing to work with you.
Choking is one of those things that we all experience, and many of us consider it the end of the world. Not only is it not, but it can even make you a better communicator in the long run. It’s much easier to make a fool out of yourself when you know it will only lead to greater success down the road.
A version of this article originally appeared on SUCCESS.com.
Stephan Aarstol is the author of the widely acclaimed bookThe Five Hour Workday: Live Differently, Unlock Productivity, and Find Happiness , garnering coverage from CNN, CNBC,Fox & Friends,The Huffington Post, andForbes. His unique spin on the average workday earned him “World’s Best Boss” distinctions from multiple German newspapers and the title of “America’s Best Boss” from U.K.-based newspaperThe Daily Mail. Stephan Aarstol is the CEO and founder of Tower Paddle Boards, deemed one of Mark Cuban’s bestShark Tankinvestments.